Do you bring your bf/gf home?

Just wondering if you people will bring your respective bf/gf home to let parents see.

And how long after your relationship with your partner starts before you bring them home?
(Or how long do you think you will bring them home after the r/s starts?)

hm. is ok to bring bf / gf home as long as both parties think they are ready to let their parents know abt it. time is nt impt is the couple mind set whether is time for them to c parents or nt~

Hahas.. My brother brought his gf home but my mum is not ready to see her. Sort of. Hahas.. She says they're too young for these stuffs.

yaa~ ur bro only 15~ haa~

chin261 wrote:hm. is ok to bring bf / gf home as long as both parties think they are ready to let their parents know abt it. time is nt impt is the couple mind set whether is time for them to c parents or nt~

Yeah I totally agree with Chin. It varies from couple to couple on when is the appropriate time to bring bf / gf home to see parents. There is no standard answer to this question, except on the fact that both parties must already be ready to commit long term, prepared to be scrutinized by the parents and communicate with the partner's family.

Personally, i would want my parents to 'review' the guy first, cos I do not want to be in a long relationship and ended up i can't cross my parents 'hurdle' ...

Yea.. It's really awkward to be caught in between. My family is very important to me and i tend to take their views seriously. hahas

I dont dare to bring it back unless I am sure that we will be together forever etc..
cause of my bro.. keep bringing back and changing gf.. if I do that, my mother will get irritated ba.. she rather I dont bring back haha

well.... i bring my ex gf home after like 1yr+ in r/s.... that was when i was in poly lor...
then best part is when my mum knows i got gf le her reply is.....

"hai ya... u go ns le she will also run away 1 la... just like ur bro"

then i -.-"....

So did she run away?? O.O *curious*

Calis wrote:So did she run away?? O.O *curious*

erm.. I'll say no ba... breakup for other reasons... lol...

i think as long as the feeling and the right time is there. u will bring the person back. i donte rlly care about the opinion or comments given by other, to me love is just about the two of you.

DarkWind wrote:well.... i bring my ex gf home after like 1yr+ in r/s.... that was when i was in poly lor...
then best part is when my mum knows i got gf le her reply is.....

"hai ya... u go ns le she will also run away 1 la... just like ur bro"

then i -.-"....

hahah.. my mother also tell my brother this..

Joanstar wrote:

DarkWind wrote:well.... i bring my ex gf home after like 1yr+ in r/s.... that was when i was in poly lor...
then best part is when my mum knows i got gf le her reply is.....

"hai ya... u go ns le she will also run away 1 la... just like ur bro"

then i -.-"....

hahah.. my mother also tell my brother this..

LOl.... mums think alike ya.... =X

DarkWind wrote:

Joanstar wrote:

DarkWind wrote:well.... i bring my ex gf home after like 1yr+ in r/s.... that was when i was in poly lor...
then best part is when my mum knows i got gf le her reply is.....

"hai ya... u go ns le she will also run away 1 la... just like ur bro"

then i -.-"....

hahah.. my mother also tell my brother this..

LOl.... mums think alike ya.... =X

hahaha

All in all, if parents say no, there must be some reason in it.

Besides, the salt they eat is more than the rice i have taken in my 21 years of life. I trust them.

babyto0ns wrote:All in all, if parents say no, there must be some reason in it.

Besides, the salt they eat is more than the rice i have taken in my 21 years of life. I trust them.

lol... guess ur parent must love ur bf... since u say this... =P hehehe.... good for u also... haha

babyto0ns wrote:All in all, if parents say no, there must be some reason in it.

Besides, the salt they eat is more than the rice i have taken in my 21 years of life. I trust them.

err how old is ur parents? they might not eat more salt than ur rice. otherwise they might had taken too much salt liao

DarkWind wrote:

babyto0ns wrote:All in all, if parents say no, there must be some reason in it.

Besides, the salt they eat is more than the rice i have taken in my 21 years of life. I trust them.

lol... guess ur parent must love ur bf... since u say this... =P hehehe.... good for u also... haha

Err, more like they trust me bah.. but really cannot just bring any guy to see grandparents or aunties during new year or tongues might wag that I keep changing BFs~

Lim Jia wrote:

babyto0ns wrote:All in all, if parents say no, there must be some reason in it.

Besides, the salt they eat is more than the rice i have taken in my 21 years of life. I trust them.

err how old is ur parents? they might not eat more salt than ur rice. otherwise they might had taken too much salt liao

My mum is 56, my dad is 54