Do you like your bf/gf to be always clinging on to you?

I've seen some clinging partners around and was wondering if their partners like that or not.

For example: always always always on the phone, even though they met like 1 or 2 hours ago?


I'm not too sure about myself though. Probably not? Hahas. What are your views?

oh gosh. i cant stand clinging bf. i mean yeah i understand that he wan to spend time with me. but i need to have my space and friends too. and honestly speaking, my girlfriends are as important or mayb even more important. you mustnt treat ur friends as part time ones, only look for them when quarreled with bf/gf. i once had a bf who complaint that i spent too much time with my friends and asked me to make a choice. needless to say, i told him im choosing my friend. we didnt break up because of that thou , we broke up because of some other reason.

for me, too clinging nt good~ haa~ cos busy man cant spend too much time w her too~

Jessamine wrote:oh gosh. i cant stand clinging bf. i mean yeah i understand that he wan to spend time with me. but i need to have my space and friends too. and honestly speaking, my girlfriends are as important or mayb even more important. you mustnt treat ur friends as part time ones, only look for them when quarreled with bf/gf. i once had a bf who complaint that i spent too much time with my friends and asked me to make a choice. needless to say, i told him im choosing my friend. we didnt break up because of that thou , we broke up because of some other reason.

I can't stand a gf who is too clinging too. Calls 2,3 hours after we've met? Maybe a short 10-15min chat, but no 1,2 hours sweet talk! I agree with Jess that both of us must give each other space for personal time and friends. Friends cannot be treated as though they're part time, finding them only when one is bored or have troubles.

It's hard to have a clinging partner, as some matters or incidents are not that appropriate or convenient such as the need to work, run some errands etc. It can be very frustrating too after some time.

Heck, no! Just thinking about having a clingy partner scares the daylights outta me.

Unhealthy i suppose, to have a clingy partner. Is like you won't even have time to do your personal stuffs. Apart from that you also have other commitments like work/family/friends.... too clingy may lead to mistrust, then many un-happenings things will start arising, worse will be if the communications is not firm then it's the end for the r.s....

I guess I'm the odd one out here den. =)

babyto0ns wrote:I guess I'm the odd one out here den. =)

well... good to be special at times... =P

I know one clinging couple.. they are my classmates and they super cling.. If got outing, one go the other will go. if one no go, the other wont go. and during chalet (aloha Loyang) .. they will occupy one whole room for themselves and lock in it (only come out to play mahjong or eat)..

What they do?? Both of them lie on bed do nothing.. I look at u, u look at me for 3days 2 night (Actually nothing to complain abt EXCEPT.. they didnt pay so much as to occupy one room themselves and others have to squeeze)

Sch projects do together, grping, do homework also together. Keep calling each other and the boy always send the girl home (one live east, one live west).. They are practically "together" almost every min..

Joanstar wrote:I know one clinging couple.. they are my classmates and they super cling.. If got outing, one go the other will go. if one no go, the other wont go. and during chalet (aloha Loyang) .. they will occupy one whole room for themselves and lock in it (only come out to play mahjong or eat)..

What they do?? Both of them lie on bed do nothing.. I look at u, u look at me for 3days 2 night (Actually nothing to complain abt EXCEPT.. they didnt pay so much as to occupy one room themselves and others have to squeeze)

Sch projects do together, grping, do homework also together. Keep calling each other and the boy always send the girl home (one live east, one live west).. They are practically "together" almost every min..

I saw smiliar couple in my poly days... same lect hall... but don really know them... find it quite er xin when every lunch times... the ger will sit on the guy lap then had him to feed her lunch... -.-"....

Mine classmate wont sit on lap la.. but they are like keeping looking at each other.. and touching arms..

And when go play pool, they dont play, The girl lay on the guy''s lap or vice versa hahaha..

I personally find them disgusting sometimes.. but who knows.. maybe next time I also like this hahah

Joanstar wrote:Mine classmate wont sit on lap la.. but they are like keeping looking at each other.. and touching arms..

And when go play pool, they dont play, The girl lay on the guy''s lap or vice versa hahaha..

I personally find them disgusting sometimes.. but who knows.. maybe next time I also like this hahah

LOL..... well at least not for me haha... so if next outing u sitting on someone lap we'll know things are going on le... lol...=P

Lol... but I dont think I thick skin until like this la.. hahaha

lol.... I don like also... just feel very werid... don like to do this kinds of things in public.. haha... it is so "attraching attention"

But they are lost in their own world when they cling to each other I guess..

lol... guess so ba.... (zai wo de xin li zhi you ni kind of thingy)....

hahah.. ya lo

HAHAHA i donte like PDA too. i feel very VERY uncomfortable PDA. but again. tt depend how much u love tt person. i think if u rlly rlyl love the person, then u wonte care about what the others say cos theres only u and him/her in ur eyes.

Jessamine wrote:HAHAHA i donte like PDA too. i feel very VERY uncomfortable PDA. but again. tt depend how much u love tt person. i think if u rlly rlyl love the person, then u wonte care about what the others say cos theres only u and him/her in ur eyes.

hahah ya lo. . but rather scary lei

i super super cannot stand kissing in public. LOL. esp in the train! gosh.